Do you have a question for a Franciscan Sister? Please feel free to email Sister Julie Ann at email@example.com.
Here are some questions others have asked.
What is your favorite part of being a Sister?
I am truly grateful that God called me to be a Sister. There are so many beautiful aspects of this vocation, but I would have to say my favorite parts are living in community, being able to serve in ministry, and having the time to develop a deeper relationship with Jesus. We sisters are truly like a family. It is a blessing to be able to pray together, learn from each other, and laugh with one another. God has called me to a place where I can use my gifts and talents in His service. Videography used to simply be a job for me, and now it is a way to share God’s love and spread His messages of hope. All of this work stems from prayer. I enjoy being able to wake up in the morning and talk with the love of my life, knowing He will be with me through whatever the day brings. He also speaks to your heart as well. May you experience His peace, and if He calls you to visit us, I look forward to meeting you! -Novice Sister Cecilia Joy
I sense that God has talked directly to me many times. It is in a sense, feeling/ intuition to know something, to do something, act on something or refrain from acting on something.
The strongest time was when I was on retreat and pondering the Baptism of Jesus. In my mind, I was standing on the shore watching as John Baptized Jesus. At the same time, Jesus came and stood beside me, put his arm around my shoulders and said, “My Father is speaking to you as well: ‘You are my beloved daughter in whom I am well pleased’.” This was a great moment of love and confirmation of my religious vocation.
What’s the hardest part about being a Sister?
While there are challenges with being a Sister, it is remarkable how God transforms them into either opportunities for growth or better experiences than could have been imagined. An example is having limited communication with my friends during Novitiate. This was difficult at first. But then, God allowed me to know that I could love them most by using this time to pray for them. I now enjoy being their prayer warrior, and am grateful for the prayers they offer for me as well. We are truly united in prayer which is a bond deeper than words. (Novice Sister Cecilia Joy)
Do you always wear what you are wearing now? Do people ever approach you with questions or give you strange looks/rude to you?
Yes, I always wear what I am wearing now. These clothes are my habit. By wearing them, I witness to people that I am a Franciscan Sister of Christian Charity.
Wearing a habit does invite people to approach me with questions about being a Sister, asking for prayers and just wanting to talk about a concern. I always try to smile at people as I pass them and greet them. Most often they have a smile and greeting for me as well. On a few rare occasions someone has said something rude. All I can do is pray for that person to be able to find joy and peace in their life.
Once you receive your new name, do you ever go by your old name again?
Before Vatican II, Sisters were asked to give three suggestions for possible names as religious. They did not suggest their own name. After Vatican II, Sisters were given the option of returning to their baptismal name or keeping the name they received in religious life.
Today, young women, requesting to enter the novitiate, give suggestions for names in religious life and one of those suggestions can be to keep her baptismal name. All official documents are in her legal name.
My own family calls me several different names.
Do you get paid for being a Sister?
I found this an interesting question. It presents a misunderstanding of the vocation to be a Sister. I don’t get paid to be a Sister just as someone does not get paid to be married. Being a Sister is a response to God’s call to serve him. We live in Community as Sisters, like a family, and the structure of the communal life gives a foundation for our response. We do not respond alone just as one can not be married alone. We have Sisters with whom we share our life. Each of us adds to the relationship of the Community and therefore supports me in my vocation and I hopefully support them.
The part we may be paid for is the ministry we do. Note that I said “we” get paid for. Each of us takes a vow of poverty. Because of this vow and the vow of obedience the ministry that I do is assigned to me by those in charge of the Community. The payment for this ministry is paid to the Community not to me. The check is even made out to the Franciscan Sisters of Christian Charity. This supports the communal life that is addressed in the Acts of the Apostles Chapter 2.
Of course there are times of exception to this in regard to the payment. Sometimes a Sister may do work that is approved by the Community and is paid in her own name, but even then the money is turned over to the Community to be able to continue to support each other and to live the vow of poverty.
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